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Moving. I don’t know about you but that brings a sense of excitement, but also brings an even greater sense of dread. Oh, the to do lists! Packing, sorting, finding boxes, turning on/off utilities, changing your address with a list of different places, the physical loading and unloading of everything, finding your way around in a new area, did I mention the PACKING and UNPACKING?! Add on to that the stress of buying/selling/finding someplace to live… I can see why moving ranks as the 3rd most stressful life event.
It looks like a move will be in the somewhat near future for us. I know some of you are saying – NO! Not after she worked on her pretty kitchen, or did this or that – believe me I am thinking the same thing! But I am also thinking what kind of adventure waits ahead in a future home! It won’t be super soon – probably in the next year depending on the housing market and several other factors. This is our first home – the home I learned how to be a wife/homemaker in, the home I have poured my heart into and learned how to DIY/decorate on a budget in, and it holds many memories. We will stay in the general area, but need a house with a bit different layout, maybe a little more land, and in a different location. It will be a bittersweet move and a much more difficult move than when we moved in 11 years ago. We had only been married a year when we moved in and had a table and 4 chairs, my husband’s bedroom set, a loveseat and that is IT! We have added just a little bit of furniture and accessories since then. #Iblametheyardsales
I am a huge thinker/planner always wanting to plan ahead for the next event in life. So knowing that a move may be on the horizon already has me thinking/planning/preparing. Even though we might not list our home for 6-9 more months these are the things I am starting to work on now:
1. Purge.
And purge some more. I have been going through my house ruthlessly getting rid of old décor, of things we don’t use, things we don’t need. When you ask yourself the question, “Would I want to pack and move this item?” – that can be a great motivator to get rid of things you are holding on to “just because” or because “I might need this one day”. I am sure that when it comes time to start packing, I will purge more but every thing I can get rid of now helps.
2. Make a list of repairs, upgrades, and major cleaning that needs to be done.
Is your home ready to list today? If not, what needs to be changed? I started a list several months ago of things we needed to work on/upgrade knowing that I had time to gradually work on it. One of the things was that almost every room in whole house had not been painted in 11 years and needed some fresh paint – so I have been gradually, room-by-room, working on repainting. I also knew there are some easy/inexpensive upgrades that we could do that would greatly increase interest and possibly even price in our house – like my kitchen makeover. I knew that spending a few hundred dollars on new counters and then doing a lot of work on my own like painting/repairing my cabinets, installing a backsplash, and a pretty updated$4 thrifted light fixture would make a HUGE difference in our home. And I honestly wanted to be able to enjoy my kitchen up before we decide to sell. We need to have the carpets cleaned, the outside pressure washed, and many other things that are just a part of home ownership but also will make it better and easier to sell.
3. Think about what you want in your future house.
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This is a common conversation between my husband and I. We both have a “wish list” for a future home – like a dedicated workshop area for both of us! Even though there are no guarantees for anything, I am starting to pin “wish list” ideas for home styles and take note of homes we pass that I like. I am making note of things I like about our current house that I would like to keep in a future house. And I have done a bit of searching on real estate sites such as Zillow or RealEstate.com just to see what is available in our area and in our price range – let’s just say I have a feeling my DIY skills are going to get LOTS better at our next house! And I am stepping back to enjoy my current house just a bit more.
4. Think about ways you can make your move easier.
I have started taking note of friends and bloggers and posts I see about people moving. What kinds of things are they doing = are they renting PODS, what are they doing to sell their home quicker/easier, how are they finding a new home? Ask questions and start formulating a plan.
Then when moving day comes how are you going to handle all the utilities and stuff that will need to be turned on/turned off and at very specific times too – you certainly don’t want to schedule your power to turn on the day after you need to move in. I can imagine that when we get to that point I will have a very detailed list of places I need to contact and times/dates when I need to have it done.
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5. Step back and just enjoy the home you are currently in.
We are going to talk much about this subject in the coming days (more on that later), but just step back and enjoy where you are! Don’t dream about the future so much that you forget to make memories where are you now. I am trying to get rooms painted, and settled so I can just sit back and enjoy my home. We are moving into a bit of a new phase in life where we hope to entertain and have more people over to our home and I don’t want it to be an endless project center that makes having guests in our home more difficult. I am also working on areas in our home, like the kitchen, master bathroom, and a few more that you will see in the next few weeks to finish them so we can enjoy them and they will be a benefit to our home when we sell. In the last few months as we have begin talking about this, I have found a new love and appreciation for the home I have now – I don’t know that may make it harder to leave when the time comes… but I want to love and enjoy the home that I am in for however much longer we are in it.
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Lisa Brown says
I would not want to disconnect from NCIS
Christa says
Welllllll, we actually don’t have a TV, so I suppose I’m still alive even though I don’t watch anything regularly? 😉
I do, however, enjoy watching Fixer Upper online! 😀
millie torres says
the nicest thing about moving is the thought of decorating another house….good luck.
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Lisa says
We have begun doing the same thing. Our move may not happen for a couple of years but I have done a ton of purging this summer. I think one show I would not want to be disconnected from would be Fixer Upper. Love Joanna’s style.
HS says
One of the shows I could bear to be disconnected from is Elementary.
Cynthia says
House of Cards and Fixer Upper!
Kim Henrichs says
Now that new TV is back I would say Homeland!
Donna Marie says
I like Antiques Roadshow. I agree that purging is of the utmost importance. You don’t have time when you are moving.
Sally says
TV….sports!! With hockey season just around the corner….I don’t want to miss my Los Angeles Kings. Love your blog!!!
Rosie says
I like to watch news on different stations – it is a must!
Sherry VF says
Dancing With The Stars!! Love it. sjvonfumetti at yahoo dot com
Beverly says
We don’t have cable or satellite, but if we did the TV would be on HGTV, Food Network, or the Hallmark Channel. I would never get anything done..lol!!
Jennifer says
One show? Oh no, there are too many I would be very disappointed to be disconnected from. I love Fixer Upper, Love It or List It, and Flea Market Flip just to name a few.
kathy w says
I can’t wait till Suits starts again.
Carol says
No time in this house for watching TV right now. Any free time goes toward home improvement projects. I enjoy reading about yours.
Christina says
you watch the news 🙂 But you would probably do without it and just listen in your vehicle 🙂
Kim Edwards (Loving My Life) says
Are you kidding me? The show I could not live without is THE WALKING DEAD! I know…..I’m crazy! But, Fall is the season that I look forward to the most! I love the cooler weather, the beautiful Fall colors, football, pumpkins, hay rides, and, of course, ZOMBIES! Bring on THE WALKING DEAD!
ELIZA ELLIOT says
I couldn’t miss NCIS!!! i love it.
shelly peterson says
I would not want to be disconnected to Criminal Minds.
beverly e says
Downton Abbey’s last season… I guess I’ll have to find a new favorite!